July 30, 2014

utteranonymity:

Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.

(via lorilikes)

July 29, 2014

Gotta love it when you go to the shop just for a damn loaf of bread and almost have a panic attack right there.

Oh yeah, super looking forward to work tomorrow |:

July 28, 2014

truebjdconfessions:

Angel-Unlimited really isn’t a UK forum. It’s a Derby forum. If you’re from anywhere else in the UK you are ignored, ESPECIALLY if you’re from the south…

~Anonymous

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Soooo… not sure how being part of the staff and being from T’North fits me into Anon’s little theory here.

Tashi covered it pretty well. Do you interact with other people or just expect them to fawn while you give nothing back? If so then yeeeeah that’s not how forums and you know, social interactions in general tend to work. If you’re interacting and getting nothing back at all then fair enough, but I can assure you, no one is deliberately ignored on any level.

Yes, the Derby meets are organised on there and most of the staff are from there (though only recently so) but there’s nothing at all to stop anyone else from organising meets on there. I’d get some Leeds ones going if I didn’t have far too much on my plate already x_x
We have a membership that’s not just from all over the UK but we’ve got members from around the Globe too. If you’re feeling ignored I highly doubt your location is the issue, look inside yourself Simba.

July 28, 2014
cupcakes4fashion:

I found this quote awhile ago but had forgotten about it until someone posted it pretty recently. It’s one of those that really resonates with me because I have a hard time sticking to things that don’t give instant gratification. #motivation #mondaymotivation #motivational

cupcakes4fashion:

I found this quote awhile ago but had forgotten about it until someone posted it pretty recently. It’s one of those that really resonates with me because I have a hard time sticking to things that don’t give instant gratification.
#motivation #mondaymotivation #motivational